爱自己-忘了想要要每个人都满意的想法(1)

Love yourself

 

爱自己

 

Forget trying to make everybody like you.

忘了试着让你周围的人都喜欢你的想法

 

While it is nice having people to like you, it is not possible to be adored by everybody. By accepting the fact that each individual has different preferences in things, you will be able to appreciate those who adore you and be okay with those who don't.

 

虽然你的好会招人喜欢，但让每个人都喜欢你那似乎是不可能的。接受每个人对同一件事的喜好不一样的这一事实，你会喜欢那些羡慕你的人，也能和那些不喜欢你的人相处友好。

 

Forget trying to please everybody.

忘了想要每个人都满意的想法

 

You can never please everybody. It is important to be nice, but trying to please everybody is just going to end up burning you out because you can never fulfill¹ every person's expectations. Help others when you are capable of helping², and know when it is the right time to just let others take care of things on their own.

 

你绝不可能让每个人都满意。好很重要，但是想要让每个人都满意就是让自己走向灭亡，因为你绝不可能满足每个人的期待。有能力帮助别人的时候就帮助别人，也要知道什么时候是让别人自己照顾自己的最佳时机。

1 fulfill   

vt.履行，实现，完成；满足，使满意

参考例句：

• If you make a promise you should fulfill it.如果你许诺了，你就要履行你的诺言。
• This company should be able to fulfill our requirements.这家公司应该能够满足我们的要求。

2 helping   

n.食物的一份&adj.帮助人的，辅助的

参考例句：

• The poor children regularly pony up for a second helping of my hamburger. 那些可怜的孩子们总是要求我把我的汉堡包再给他们一份。
• By doing this, they may at times be helping to restore competition. 这样一来, 他在某些时候,有助于竞争的加强。