向前一步:第135期 不要身还在 心已远(9)
I tried writing e-mails while hovering over the toilet, but the situation didn't lend itself to effective multitasking. 我曾经试图坐在马桶上写电子邮件，但这也没有提高我的多重任务处理效率。 Because I had already been
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One of the immediate questions new parents face is who will provide primary care for a child. 为人父母面临的首要问题之一，便是由谁承担照顾孩子的主要任务。 The historical choice has been the mother. 传统上都是把孩子
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Obviously, their reasons for staying home are vastly different. 显然，女性决定做全职妈妈的原因各不相同。 Mothers married to the lowest-earning men struggle to find jobs that pay enough to cover child care costs, which are increasi
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While it's hard to predict how an individual will react to becoming a parent, it's easy to predict society's reaction. 一个人升格为家长之后的反应很难预测，但我们很容易看到社会对他们的期待。 When a couple announces t
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Imagine that a career is like a marathona long, grueling, and ultimately rewarding endeavor. 我们可以把事业想象成马拉松一项历时漫长、备受磨炼最后可能有所收获的运动。 Now imagine a marathon where both men and women
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In that moment, Debi said she felt her own ambitions shift. 黑梅特尔说，在那一刻她感到自己心里的希望破灭了。 As Debi told me, It seemed like if this extraordinary woman couldn't make it work, who could? 她说：如果连这么出
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Although pundits and politicians, usually male, often claim that motherhood is the most important and difficult work of all, 学者和政治家（通常是男性）常常宣称做母亲是人生中最重要也是最困难的工作， women who take t
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But she thought about all the time and money she had already invested in her career and didn't see how walking away made economic sense either. 但她回想起自己已经在事业中投入的时间和金钱成本，这让她确定自己离开职场也
向前一步:第143期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(1)
Chapter 8 Make Your Partner a Real Partner 第8章 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档 Being a mother has been an amazing experience for me. Giving birth was not. 做母亲对我来说是相当不可思议的经历，但分娩过程却不是
向前一步:第144期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(2)
It was all worth it when my son was pronounced healthy and the nausea that I had felt for nine straight months vanished within an hour. 当医生宣布我的儿子非常健康时，我觉得所有的痛苦都是值得的，9个月持续不断的妊娠反
向前一步:第145期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(3)
She said, You're just a few months away from having a baby, 她却说：还有几个月你就生了， so surely you and your husband have thought about who is going to pick up your child if he is sick at school? 显然你和你丈夫都已经考虑过
向前一步:第146期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(4)
Dave had founded a company, Launch Media, in L.A. and sold it to Yahoo years earlier. 那一年，戴夫在洛杉矶创立了开启传媒公司，这家公司十几年前被雅虎收购。 Yahoo's headquarters were in Northern California, where I liv
向前一步:第147期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(5)
A 2009 survey found that only 9 percent of people in dual-earner marriages said that they shared housework, child care, and breadwinning evenly. 2009年的一项调查发现，双薪家庭里只有9%的夫妻表示会共同分担家务劳动，一同承
向前一步:第148期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(6)
A sandwich, carrot sticks, a cut-up apple, pretzels, and a cookie, Scott said. 一个三明治，几根胡萝卜条，一只苹果，椒盐饼干还有曲奇饼。 He hung up smiling and explained that his wife was asking what she should put in the k
向前一步:第149期 让你的另一半成为你真正的人生搭档(7)
But even if mothers are more naturally inclined toward nurturing, fathers can match that skill with knowledge and effort. 但即使母亲和孩子之间有着更自然的联系，父亲也可以通过学习育儿知识并付出努力来获得与母亲不
