向前一步:第30期 职业女性的内在障碍(19)
Employed women reap rewards including greater financial security, more stable marriages, better health, and, in general, increased life satisfaction. 职业女性可以收获许多成果，包括更稳定的经济与婚姻状况，更健康的身体，
向前一步:第31期 职业女性的内在障碍(20)
In bright red letters, one declares, Fortune favors the bold. 其中有一张海报印着亮红色的宣言：机遇青睐敢于冒险的人。 Another insists, Proceed and be bold. 还有一张是：完成胜过完美。 My favorite reads, What woul
向前一步:第32期 职业女性的内在障碍(21)
Like everyone here, I have great hopes for the members of this graduating class. 就像这里的每位老师一样，我对你们也抱有很大的期望。 I hope you find true meaning, contentment, and passion in your life. 我希望你们找到人生
向前一步:第33期 往桌前坐(1)
Chapter 2 Sit at the Table 第二章 往桌前坐 A few years ago, I hosted a meeting for Treasury Secretary Tim Geithner at Facebook. 几年前，我曾在脸谱网为美国财长蒂姆盖特纳主持过一次会议。 We invited fifteen executives
向前一步:第34期 往桌前坐(2)
When I gave a TEDTalk on how women can succeed in the workforce, 几年后，当我在TED大会做关于女性如何在职场上取得成功的演讲时， I told this story to illustrate how women hold themselves back, literally choosing to watch fr
向前一步:第35期 往桌前坐(3)
Every time I was called on in class, I was sure that I was about to embarrass myself. 每次在课上被点名时，我都觉得自己肯定会当众出丑； Every time I took a test, I was sure that it had gone badly. 每次考试时，我都觉得自
向前一步:第36期 往桌前坐(4)
For women, feeling like a fraud is a symptom of a greater problem. 对女性来说，感觉像个骗子说明的是一个更严重的问题： We consistently underestimate ourselves. 我们始终在低估自己。 Multiple studies in multiple indust
向前一步:第37期 往桌前坐(5)
Men and women also differ when it comes to explaining failure. 在解释失败时，男女也不同。 When a man fails, he points to factors like didn't study enough or not interested in the subject matter. 当一个男性失败时，他会归咎于研
向前一步:第38期 往桌前坐(6)
I attended a big public school in Miamithink Fast Times at Ridgemont High 那时，我在迈阿密一所很大的公立学校上学请联想一下电影《开放的美国学府》。 that was far more concerned with preventing fights in the halls and
向前一步:第39期 往桌前坐(7)
I stayed in every night, plugging away, and based on the time I put in, I should have gotten an A for effort. I got a C. 于是，我每天晚上都待在宿舍里，挑灯夜战。基于我投入的时间和努力，我的论文应该得A，最后的成
向前一步:第40期 往桌前坐(8)
Once, back in high school, we both had Saturday night dates who canceled on us in the late afternoon. 在高中时，我们都在某个周末下午被约会对象通知取消晚上的约会。 I spent the rest of the weekend moping around the house,
向前一步:第41期 往桌前坐(9)
We turned to my brother. How did he feel about the test? 我们继而问起戴维：你感觉考得如何？ I got the flat one, he announced. The flat one? we asked. Yeah, he said, the flat A. 和平时一样啊。一样？我们问道。是啊，他说
向前一步:第42期 往桌前坐(10)
When I don't feel confident, one tactic I've learned is that it sometimes helps to fake it. 当感觉不到自信时，我告诉你一个窍门，就是要假装自信。有时候这招很管用。 I discovered this when I was an aerobics instructor
向前一步:第43期 往桌前坐(11)
I would not suggest that anyone move beyond feeling confident into arrogance or boastfulness. 我并非建议大家过分自信以致傲慢或自负。 No one likes that in men or women. 不管是男人还是女人，如果表现出这一点，人们都
向前一步:第44期 往桌前坐(12)
Given how fast the world moves today, grabbing opportunities is more important than ever. 考虑到当今世界发展速度之快，抓住机会就显得尤为重要。 Few managers have the time to carefully consider all the applicants for a job, mu
