向前一步:第105期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(1)
Chapter 6 Seek and Speak Your Truth 第6章 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪 My friend Betsy Cohen was pregnant with her second child when her toddler, Sam, became curious about where the baby was in her body. 我的朋友贝齐科恩怀第二个
向前一步:第106期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(2)
Often these situations don't improve because no one tells anyone what is really happening. We are so rarely brave enough to tell the truth. 这些情况的出现正是因为我们很少有勇气去讲真话。 Being honest in the workplace is especia
向前一步:第107期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(3)
Fear of seeming negative or nagging. 害怕看上去过于消极或啰唆, Fear that constructive criticism will come across as just plain old criticism. 害怕自己的批评意见听起来像是陈词滥调, Fear that by speaking up, we will ca
向前一步:第108期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(4)
Fred showed up at Google, and his teachings changed my career and my life. 科夫曼教授终于在谷歌露面了,他的教学彻底改变了我的事业和生活, He is one of the most extraordinary thinkers on leadership and management I have
向前一步:第109期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(5)
Truth is also better served by using simple language. 简洁的语言也有助于真实想法的表达。 Office-speak often contains nuances and parentheticals that can bury not just the lead but the entire point. 办公语言在措辞上常有的细微
向前一步:第110期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(6)
Eventually, she got frustrated and just blurted out, My manager is bad! 最后这位女员工很挫败地脱口而出:我的经理很坏! She was still speaking Chinese, but simply enough that Mark understood. 说的还是中文,但足够简单,
向前一步:第111期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(7)
I love hearing my son explain to my daughter, I'm sorry you're upset because you lost at Monopoly, but I'm older than you so I should win. 我很乐意听到我的儿子对他妹妹解释:我很抱歉看到你因为输了大富翁游戏而不高兴,
向前一步:第112期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(8)
About ten senior staffers were sitting at the table when we entered. 我们走进会议室时,已经有十几位高级职员坐在桌前了。 Since I knew nothing about the topic, I took a seat in the back corner of the room (yup, not even close t
向前一步:第113期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(9)
This got repeated as Rubin likes gold, and someone spent millions of dollars to please the new boss. 这句话经过多次转述后被演绎成了鲁宾对黄金感兴趣。随后,就有人打算花费数百万美元来取悦这位新老板。 More
向前一步:第114期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(10)
I got onstage in front of our entire sales team and apologized for the misunderstanding. 于是,我召集整个销售团队,当着大家的面为这次误会道歉。 I also let them know that if they hear a bad idea, even one they believe is com
向前一步:第115期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(11)
One day, she and I hosted a tricky client meeting. 有一天,我们一起主持一个有点儿棘手的客户会议, She navigated the discussion effectively, and after the clients left, I praised her effort. 期间她准确、高效地引导了讨
向前一步:第116期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(12)
I have also learned the hard way that being open to hearing the truth means taking responsibility for mistakes. 我也曾辛酸地体会到,保持开放的心态迎接真相也意味着要为自己的错误负责。 In my first week as chief of sta
向前一步:第117期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(13)
With the other bureau chiefs, I initiated conversation by asking what I could do to help them achieve their goals. 后来和其他部门负责人联系时,我都会问问自己要做些什么才可以帮助他们完成工作目标。 It's no surpri
向前一步:第118期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(14)
Another way I try to foster authentic communication is to speak openly about my own weaknesses. 我尝试进行真诚交流的另一种方式,便是公开地谈论自己的缺点。 To highlight just one, I have a tendency to get impatient about un
向前一步:第119期 真实地表达自己的想法与情绪(15)
Since the group included members of the security team, I asked what they were most worried about. 与会工程师里有几位网络安全团队的成员,我问他们最担心的是什么。 Without being called on, Chad Greene blurted out, Opening